Sometimes improving the way we communicate with another changes the relationship for the better. The relationships we have in our lives will grow, change and evolve. We might have a connection with someone that will last a life time, while other relationships serve their purpose for a short time, and it is natural that they come to an end. There are many different ways to use PSYCH-K to assist relationships but one of the best and most profound balances I’ve used for this issue is...The Relationship Balance!
The Relationship Balance is specifically designed with two people in mind with the intention to heal or allow the relationship to come to a natural end. This balance can be done with the two people in the relationship or simply with one person and the facilitator steps in as person B. Both ways are very efficient and all parties receive huge benefits.
My first encounter with the relationship balance was as a client. I was going through a turbulent time with a close friend that I felt desperate to mend. My PSYCH-K facilitator walked me through the Relationship Balance and I immediately felt very calm about the entire situation. When I next saw the person I had done the Relationship Balance with, our entire dynamic had changed. We both stopped arguing and fighting with one another and the friendship quickly settled back into our usual loving territory. I was so grateful.
When I was training to become an Advanced PSYCH-K Practitioner, I was delighted to learn how to facilitate the Relationship Balance myself. As practice I did a relationship balance with someone in my life who I wasn't getting along with. The situation was sticky and complicated and had been bothering me for years. I didn’t expect much to change because I had this pre-conceived notion that I was doomed to be stuck in this relationship forever.
Nevertheless, my facilitator muscle tested me and found that this relationship was indeed the highest priority to balance. The process was enlightening. I felt so much compassion and understanding towards this person and I felt so free upon completing the balance.
Years of resentment and bitterness seemed to totally fade, and when I next encountered this person, I found myself actually wanting to engage in conversation. This person’s entire reaction towards me had changed as well. We certainly weren’t best friends but we could peacefully get along with each other with minimal effort. A few weeks after this balance, this person announced that they were leaving the country and we probably wouldn’t see each other again. Although all animosity had dried up, I was still relieved by the news. We were able to part on friendly terms.
It's easy to blame the other person in the relationship for all our troubles but we can't make them change. We can change the way we feel about them though and so often when we take this positive approach, our relationship improves in a natural way. By taking responsibility for our part in the relationship, we allow healing and that feeling of connection to be restored. If you feel that a relationship in your life needs some positive attention, do try PSYCH-K and watch as the results follow.
Peace, Love and Healing
PSYCH-K - Life Coaching - Personal Development - Albany, North Shore, Auckland
Hi! I’m Olivia Wilson and welcome to my blog! I am an Emotional Wellness Practitioner specializing in EFT Tapping, The Emotion Code and PSYCH-K. In this blog I share my insights on emotional health and healing. So take a look around and learn all the great ways that Reflection Coaching can help you thrive and live a healthy, happy life!